Narcissists live in their own world where they think they’re superior and everything revolves around them. They might come off as confident or charming, but that’s a cover fo the fact they believe they are better, smarter, and more deserving than everyone else. Here are 15 delusional beliefs narcissists think about themselves and the world that are totally out of touch with reality.
1. “I’m Better Than Everyone Else”
Narcissists truly believe they’re superior to everyone around them, whether it’s in intelligence, talent, or looks. In their minds, they’re always a step above.
Why it’s delusional: No one is better than anyone else—we all have our strengths and weaknesses. Thinking you’re on a higher level just isolates you from real connections.
2. “Rules Don’t Apply to Me”
They act like the rules don’t apply to them, whether it’s bending social norms or ignoring boundaries. Narcissists think they should get a free pass.
Why it’s delusional: Rules exist for a reason, and breaking them catches up with you sooner or later. They’re not as special as they think.
3. “People Are Here to Serve Me”
They expect people to cater to their every need without ever giving back. To them, other people exist to make their life easier.
Why it’s delusional: Relationships are a two-way street. Treating people like they’re tools to be used is a quick way to push everyone away.
4. “I Never Make Mistakes”
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Admitting they’re wrong is not something you’ll see a narcissist do. If something goes wrong, it’s always someone else’s fault.
Why it’s delusional: Everyone makes mistakes. Refusing to own up means they never learn or grow, and that’s just sad.
5. “Everyone Is Jealous of Me”
They’re convinced that everyone around them is envious of their success, their looks, or whatever else they think makes them amazing.
Why it’s delusional: Most people are too busy with their own lives to be jealous. The idea that everyone’s watching and envying them is just another way they inflate their ego.
6. “I’m Destined for Greatness”
Narcissists believe they’re special, destined for some grand level of success or fame, even if they haven’t done much to earn it.
Why it’s delusional: Success doesn’t just land in your lap. It takes effort, and no one is “destined” for anything without putting in the work.
7. “Criticism Is Just Jealousy”
When people criticize them, narcissists dismiss it as jealousy because they think they’re too perfect for anyone to have a valid critique.
Why it’s delusional: Criticism, especially constructive criticism, is part of life. Dismissing it as jealousy means they miss out on the chance to improve.
8. “My Feelings Are the Only Ones That Matter”
They believe their emotions are the most important in any situation. If they’re upset, nothing else matters, and everyone should cater to their feelings.
Why it’s delusional: Everyone’s feelings are valid. Expecting the world to stop for them just shows how out of touch they are with other people’s needs.
9. “I Deserve VIP Treatment”
They believe they should always be treated like royalty—better service, better attention, and always being put first.
Why it’s delusional: No one deserves special treatment just for existing. This belief just sets them up for constant disappointment when the world doesn’t cater to their every whim.
10. “Everyone Should Look Up to Me”
Narcissists think they deserve endless admiration for who they are, whether they’ve actually done anything to deserve it or not.
Why it’s delusional: Real admiration is earned, not demanded. Expecting constant praise without giving anything back is just self-centered.
11. “I Can Get Away with Anything”
They think they can act however they please—hurt people, lie, manipulate—and then expect instant forgiveness as if nothing happened.
Why it’s delusional: Actions have consequences. People aren’t obligated to forgive bad behavior, especially when there’s no apology or effort to make things right.
12. “I’m Always the Victim”
Even when they’re the ones causing the harm, narcissists will flip the story to make themselves the victim. Somehow, it’s always someone else’s fault.
Why it’s delusional: They can’t always be the victim. Refusing to take responsibility for their actions just leads to more drama and broken relationships.
13. “I’m the Most Important Person in the Room”
They assume that in every room, at every event, they should be the center of attention. If they’re not, they get irritated or dismissive.
Why it’s delusional: No one is the center of the universe. Expecting constant attention makes them seem out of touch with reality and self-absorbed.
14. “People Owe Me”
They believe the world owes them something—success, recognition, admiration—without them having to put in much effort.
Why it’s delusional: Life doesn’t work that way. Success and respect are earned through effort, not entitlement.
15. “My Relationships Are Perfect”
They think their relationships—whether friendships, romantic, or family—are flawless, mainly because they control the narrative. If things go wrong, it’s always the other person’s fault.
Why it’s delusional: Relationships require effort, empathy, and compromise. Narcissists’ refusal to see their role in conflicts means their relationships are often shallow and eventually fall apart.